Reflection: Why I have to Do itIn life, people need to make deliberate decisions to set some minimum standards for their lives to afford tangible results. These are some of the bitter lessons I learned after implementing an imposed idea that was not part of what I wanted to do. It did not have passion for it nor did I have clear, deliberate goals and standards for it. A few years back, my parents forced me into a music class. I have never imagined myself singing or developing a career out of music. Therefore, when my father in particular, introduced the idea of taking music class, I was dumbfounded because it was not the nearest thought in my mind. The fact that my father loved music did not mean that I shared in his interest of music. Back then, I had not defined my goals, or developed a blueprint for my life. Therefore, when the idea of taking music came up I had no option but to take up the offer as a sign of respect to my parents. I thought things would work out along the way and that I would enjoy doing music. However, there was nothing